t0wanda:

Alright everyone, listen up. I know this is long, but we need to be talking about this, and with so much attention focused on police brutality and the Black Lives Matter movement right now, I’m surprised we’re not.

This is Reginald “Neli” Latson, a young black autistic man from Virginia who was harassed, arrested, and convicted on the basis of his race and disability. 

Neli’s ordeal began in 2010 when he was sitting outside of a library he visited frequently, waiting for it to open. Someone called the police on Neli, who was wearing a hoodie, and reported him as a suspicious individual who he or she believed was in possession of a gun. There was no evidence whatsoever for that claim. The police ended up locking down all of the schools in the area while they searched for Neli.

Neli was eventually located by a “school resources officer” and sheriff deputy. According to the police, Neli attacked the officer for no apparent reason. According to Neli and his family, Neli complied with a search (no gun was found) and then was threatened by the officer. Extremely scared, Neli tried to flee the scene, but the officer grabbed him from behind. A struggle then ensued, and the officer was able to use pepper spray on Neli before the young man fled the scene.

Neli was eventually found again and was arrested. Although there was still no gun to be found and it was revealed that the original complainant had not seen a gun, Neli was taken in for questioning. While Neli was held in jail for 11 days, his mother attempted to tell the police that her son was autistic. She reported the police as being unresponsive and uncaring, and was then blocked from visiting him. Neli’s mother also reported her son as being in “a catatonic state” during her single visit. 

After the 11 days Neli spent in jail, he was transferred to a mental institution two and a half hours away from his home for 30 days because the police found the autistic man to be unresponsive to interrogation. The police stated that if things did not get resolved within that 30 day period, he would be put back in jail. 

Since then, Neli has been put through a number of traumatic experiences, only to have news sources vilify him. Although he did so well in treatment that he was transferred to a group home, Neli eventually became agitated by the staff who were unfamiliar with his routines, so the police were called once again. Neli asked an officer to shoot him and attempted to grab his gun. Instead of treating this as a mental health crisis, Frederick County, where the incident took place, filed felony charges. 

Eric Olsen, the prosecutor of Neli’s home county, seized this as an opportunity to revoke his probation, and Neli ended back up in jail, even though a judge did not recommend it. Neli became increasingly suicidal and clashed again with the officers there. 

Neli has spent much of the last year in solitary confinement and is awaiting his trial in January. Eric Olsen is pushing to sentence him to ten years in jail. Ten years. Olsen has made extremely inappropriate comments about this case and has proven his lack of understanding, and his lack of sympathy, over and over again. He characterized Neli as being “racist against police” and has said he believes Neli being autistic “is an aspect of convenience … when his advocates want him to be retarded, he is”. 

It is clear that Neli Latson has experienced an incredible amount of trauma because the officers who interacted with him did not know how to deal with an autistic individual. However, this situation could have been avoided entirely had Neli not been black and wearing a hoodie. Ableism and racism interact and are heavily woven into our criminal justice system, but we do not have to wait until January to do something about it. The best outcome would be for Olsen to drop the charges and for Neli to return home, since nothing would have happened had he not been wrongly identified as someone suspicious. Neli’s lawyers want him to be transferred- on probation- by order of a judge to a treatment facility in Florida and believe that is the most likely outcome if Olsen does not get his way.

I’m sure we can all band together and get this young man’s story heard. His voice needs to be heard loud and clear in the movement against police brutality. Neli’s situation is not unique- police around the country do not know how to deal with autistic folks, and many receive little to no training. Other cops, like the one’s in this story, simply do not care. That is unacceptable. It is unacceptable that right now, Neli Latson is being locked in a segregation cell for 24 hours a day with minimal human interaction. Here is how you can help: 

The Justice For Reginald Latson Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Justice-for-Reginald-Latson/135944716422975

Eric Olsen’s Public Facebook Page (read about him, this guy has won awards): https://www.facebook.com/olsenforca

Eric Olsen’s Email: olsenforca@comcast.net

Participate in the #FreeNeli twitter campaign that’s being started this week. Here’s a list of suggested tweets from a great blog: http://autisticadvocacy.tumblr.com/post/103045720072/sample-tweets-to-help-freeneli

You can tweet at the Virginia Governor, Terry McAuliffe @VAGovernor. He has stated that he is an involuntary obstacle to Neli receiving justice, as his hands are “tied”. 

You can also reach the Governor and leave a message by phone at 804-786-2211, or you can email him through this link: http://autisticadvocacy.tumblr.com/post/103045720072/sample-tweets-to-help-freeneli

More information on Reginald Latson’s case can be found here: http://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/ruth-marcus-why-is-reginald-latson-being-denied-the-help-he-needs/2014/11/28/a6c5e2c0-771f-11e4-bd1b-03009bd3e984_story.html and http://www.huffingtonpost.com/ken-reibel/teen-with-aspergers-arres_b_610530.html?ref=twitter

If you cannot do any of the things listed above, please help out by reblogging this and getting the story out. I’m an allistic individual and am trying to help out by spreading the word, so please make sure to also check out public posts written by people who are actually autistic to educate yourselves further about Neli’s cause and about the discrimination autistic folks face. We need need neeeeeed to be talking about this, but we also need to make sure that the voices of people who are actually autistic, especially autistic poc, are at the forefront of this conversation. 

As a note, if you do spread the word about this issue, please be sure to use appropriate language. For example, every autistic individual I’ve interacted with prefers to be called an autistic person rather than a person with autism, as the latter implies autism is a disease, which it is not. Be mindful, please. (If anyone actually autistic feels that claim is not true or would like for me to change/add any language in this post, please let me know and I will gladly change it and apologize!)

tl;dr: a young black autistic boy from Virginia has gone through severe mental trauma for years because of his race, disability, police brutality, and a lack of awareness about how to interact with autistic folks. There are many ways listed in this post detailing how you can help. Please reblog to spread the word and add resources and updates as they show up. 

THANK YOU!!!

geekhyena:

fitnika:

castielsgayagenda:

unejeuneidiote:

unclefather:

thinkintrixxter:

toomanyfandomssolittletime:

tHIS IS THE YEAR WOMEN FINALLY SAID “FUCK YOU” TO SEXISM

YOU GO , GIRL.

‘not that you’re the genius’

questioning her intelligence when he has that hair cut in 2014

BAAAAAAAM, for fuck’s sake!!

LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING ABOUT MAYIM BIALIK. 

FOR YEARS AS A KID AND TEEN, SHE BALANCED SCHOOL AND ACTING, NEVER ONCE LETTING HER GRADES DROP OR HER CAREER SUFFER. 

SHE GRADUATED HIGH SCHOOL AT THE TOP OF HER CLASS, AND WAS ACCEPTED TO HARVARD AND YALE BUT CHOSE TO GO TO UCLA BECAUSE SHE WANTED TO STAY CLOSE TO HER FAMILY. 

SHE EARNED A BACHELORS IN NEUROSCIENCE, HEBREW STUDIES, AND JEWISH STUDIES ALL AT THE SAME TIME.

SHE THEN WENT ON TO GET HER DOCTORATE AND A Ph.D. IN NEUROSCIENCE, WHILE BALANCING AN ACTING CAREER AND MOTHERHOOD.

SHE HAS BEEN THE BUTT OF SO MANY FASHION JOKES AND ANTI-SEMETIC JOKES IN HOLLYWOOD. WHEN PEOPLE SAW HER AS AMY, THEY RIDICULED HER ONLINE. 

BUT SHE STUCK WITH IT. BECAUSE SHE IS A BEAUTIFUL AND AMAZING PERSON AND IS HAVING NONE OF THIS “WOMEN CAN’T BE SUCCESSFUL AND SMART BULLSHIT. 

SHE IS ALSO A NOW-SINGLE MOM OF TWO BOYS. AND STILL KEEPS HER CAREERS (YES THAT’S FUCKING PLURAL) ACTIVE.

BUT YET, PEOPLE STILL HAVE THE AUDACITY TO ASK HER STUPID FUCKING SEXIST QUESTIONS THAT THEY WOULD NEVER GIVE, SAY, JIM PARSONS OR JOHNNY GALECKI. 

MAYIM BIALIK IS A FUCKING ICON. 

Mayim is such a fucking badass. she came to my school to speak and she said she was literally nursing her infant while writing her dissertation for her final thesis IN NEUROSCIENCE. she also talked about how so many women in the field of science are discriminated against and how our society basically sexualizes science for no reason and that she hopes she’s a voice for female scientists everywhere. I fucking love this woman

THIS. I DGAF how awesome she is if she’s a fucking anti-vaxxer. Don’t tolerate her ableist bullshit. She’s pretty much anti modern meds to begin with, and is one of those people who thinks psychiatric meds poison people -_-

sashalilyrat:

[warnings for this post and included source links: buckets and buckets of ableism, especially anti-autism ableism, including uncensored slurs, mentions of abuse and murder, classism, transmisogyny, misgendering, rape apologism, and mentions of other -isms and slavery. please also note that most of the source links contain photographs of the actor in question.]

you know what? I’m pleased that the the majority of Marvel fandom has, from what I’ve seen, taken a staunchly Do Not Want attitude towards the probable casting of Benedict Cumberbatch as Doctor Strange

but I am really, really sick of the stock answer to “why don’t you want Cumberbatch to play Strange?” being given as simply “because he’s yet another white cishet dude (and Strange doesn’t need to be white)”

I mean please don’t get me wrong, I absolutely agree that the endless parade of white cishet dudes leading Marvel films is racist and boring as fuck and that casting a MoC as Strange instead would be wonderful; that is certainly one totally valid reason to be highly disappointed and frustrated with the (not-yet-officially-official-but-all-signs-point-to-highly-likely) casting of Cumberbatch, yes

but can we please, please, PLEASE – I am literally begging here – please acknowledge that the problem with Cumberbatch specifically, and the reason so many people are so upset about this rumour, isn’t only that he’s ‘another white cishet dude’

the more pressing issue is that he’s specifically a white cishet dude who has said and done some incredibly vile and disgustingly bigoted things and as a result he is a walking trigger to a sizeable amount of people

this is not just a case of, as I’ve seen people claim, “tumblr collectively deciding to turn on him just because he’s white and he’s said a few slightly problematic things and tumblr is fickle like that”

this is a man who prepared for the role of an iconic fictional monster – a literal nonhuman creature (albeit played in a supposedly sympathetic reimagining) – by watching autistic children like zoo animals (presumably without their consent) and deliberately copying their mannerisms and movement, and publicly described these children as “very upsetting” and “not fully evolved”

who, three years later, apparently has not learned at all from being called out (not nearly enough) on this vileness because he continues to reference this ‘research’ and describes a 17-year-old autistic person as “[having the] the mental age of a one and a half year old. Everything was just about bodily functions. Smell. Sexual arousal. Shitting. Whatever…”

who furthermore has, on multiple occasions, said that’s it’s ‘dangerous’ and ‘lazy’ to interpret any of his characters as autistic or otherwise neurodivergent (including Alan Turing, an actual human being posthumously widely regarded as autistic) because he’s met people with “those conditions” and it’s “a real struggle all the time” and he doesn’t want to “offer false hope for people going through the reality of it” (and also casually throws around the term ‘sociopath’ for good measure), despite the fact that the vast majority of people who headcanon characters as autistic are actual autistic people desperate for positive representation

a man who has literally said things about autistic people identical to things our abusers have said to us, identical to the things that allistic parents say to justify murdering their own children

(need I point out that a fairly large proportion of people in Marvel fandom are neurodivergent?)

a man who unabashedly proclaims that disability should be a punishment for supposed wrongdoing, that if people don’t live (his idea of) “morally decent, contributing lives” then “It makes me want to belt them, make them lame for a bit so they’re dependent on other people’s mercy…”

who said that the Edwardian British class system was “honourable” because “there was a duty of care from the top down”, and has repeatedly complained about “posh bashing” in modern Britain

who continually misgendered Chelsea Manning without even a single attempt to correct himself, and simultaneously defended rapist Julian Assange saying the sexual assault claims were “character assassination”

(and this is just the tip of the iceberg, I’m literally just picking out a few of the most clearly horrific quotes here; I haven’t even touched the countless examples of his more ‘casual’ ableism or his racism or misogyny or heterosexism or ace-erasure or fat-shaming or mansplaining or fandom-shaming… nor the fact that he apparently refused to change his surname to distance himself from his slave-trading ancestors even at his own mother’s request, merely because I can’t currently find a source for that, but I don’t doubt that it’s true)

and if you think that all that is just “a few slightly problematic things”, ignoring the countless people deeply hurt and triggered by his words and actions, then fuck you tbh

so yeah SIGH YET ANOTHER WHITE CISHET MAN, by all means complain (rightly!) about the continuing lack of diversity in the MCU, but look: I for one would accept pretty much any other boring-ass white cishet man in the role if I just never had to see and be triggered by Cumberbatch ever again, and I know there are many other people (particularly neurodivergent and disabled people) who feel the same

he’s not just ‘another white cishet dude’, the point is he’s a particularly vile one who has hurt and continues to hurt a lot of people

and can we just please, please, please stop ignoring that detail when people ask why Marvel-fandom-at-large doesn’t want him? please?

I don’t think that’s an unreasonable request

solelos:

chaotic-evil-gender:

saying psychotic ppl (any mentally ill ppl actually) need ‘help’ instead of ‘support’ just feels…sooo condescending to me…

in the context of mental illness, the word ‘help’ is no longer innocent and well meaning. it’s become a word with a similar meaning to ‘punishment’ imo

you don’t get support. what you need is ‘help’ which, depending on your “support” system, may mean being instutionalized or medicated without your consent

i think it does come from the idea mentally ill ppl can’t possibly know what’s best for them, that it’s ok to dehumanize them and do whatever you see fit with them bc we’re somehow lesser. we need ‘help’ and we don’t deserve support

i really hate the phrase ‘you need help’ for this exact reason

Functioning Labels Are Harmful Masterpost

nekobakaz:

debigotizer:

nomorepuzzleprofits:

If you have at all thought of the phrase “But you’re so high-functioning! Don’t erase the voices of low-functioning people. You can write a blog post! They would never be able to write a blog post!”

Do not pass go. Do not collect $200.

You get to sit down and read why functioning labels are divisive and destructive before you get to continue.

http://k-pagination.tumblr.com/post/86615316874/please-dont-use-labels-on-me-and-us

http://www.autistichoya.com/2012/09/so-high-functioning-sarcasm.html

http://wearelikeyourchild.blogspot.ca/2014/01/dont-aspie-me.html

http://unstrangemind.wordpress.com/2013/01/27/no-you-dont/

http://www.snagglebox.com/article/autism-functioning

http://autisticadvocacy.org/tag/functioning-labels/

http://musingsofanaspie.com/2013/06/26/decoding-the-high-functioning-label/

And you know what? While you’re at it, read up on disability history and eugenics. See how human beings decide which human beings are not born equal

Now go read up

THIS WILL BE ON THE TEST

Figured I’d reblog this here in light of the recent discussion about autism and functioning labels. I found it really helpful and informative, so might as well share!

The AWN has two posts on functioning labels (one’s old and by me, but hey) 

http://autismwomensnetwork.org/whats-the-difference-between-high-functioning-and-low-functioning-autism/

http://autismwomensnetwork.org/static-bubbles-the-myths-of-functioning-labels/

Ruth Marcus: In Virginia, a cruel and unusual punishment for autism

thetrekkiehasthephonebox:

creativeconflagration:

creativeconflagration:

“Reginald Latson, who is autistic and intellectually disabled, has been in solitary confinement for most of a year — the end result of law enforcement & prison officers in VA not knowing how to handle encounters with autistic people. His initial crime? "Loitering” while black and wearing a hoodie. And lack of resources are what is keeping him in prison. Infuriating & depressing.  -SR"

**It is not lack of resources keeping him in prison. It is belligerence by cops, and ignorance toward autistic people in general.

Neli Latson is still in jail and I see almost nothing about him anywhere.

I found a change.org petition, but it was closed.

In 2011, it was reported by the Stafford County Sun that his sentence was reduced from the initial 10 years to 2.

In 2012, the San Francisco Bay View reported that he would be out in February 2012, but would be sent to a group home instead of his mother’s.

Then in 2014, another source reports that the sentence was extended by another year after an altercation with an officer while living in said home (which is the sentence he is serving now).

The linked article is one of the most recent that I could find.

Additionally, here are the twitters and email form for the Governor of Virginia:

As well as the relevant State Senators that represent Stafford County in some capacity (Jill Vogel, Richard Stuart, Toddy Puller):

And this pdf has all of the elected officials for Stafford as well.

Ruth Marcus: In Virginia, a cruel and unusual punishment for autism

Yeah I’ve seen people self diagnose as MS and it’s really fucking offensive to me, because I see my brother in a wheelchair because of MS. he practically lost the use of his legs because of MS. And these people want to joke and ‘self diagnose’ this shit??? I wouldn’t wish it on my most hated enemy. These sd: cancer, autism, MS, etc. need to stop. If you feel like you have it, GO TO A DOCTOR.

geekhyena:

theseforgottenstars:

tamorapierce:

a-fierce-macaw:

tamorapierce:

soulpunchftw:

drejofvalenwood:

What the fuck?? They’re trying to throw MS into the ‘oppression criteria’ now? My mom was just diagnosed with MS and it was making her go blind on one eye and her memory’s shit because of it. What the fuck is up with the psychos on this site wanting life-threatening or impairing disorders just to feel special? It pisses me off.

I hope that everyone who pulls this self-diagnosing shit will live long lives. Without love or warmth, never knowing the barest human dignity.

Why on the gods’ earth would anyone want to self-diagnose a disease as life-terraforming as MS?  If you think you have any illness this major, you don’t self-diagnose, you get your ass to a doctor.  You don’t self-diagnose ANY major disease.  You ruin the reception that those who really have those diseases will get, and you ruin your own reception when you develop a real problem of your own—and you will, there is this thing called age.  Treat your body, your family, and your friends right.  Take the serious stuff seriously.

Some people can’t afford the time and money it takes to seek a professional diagnosis. In the case of mental health and developmental disabilities, some people cannot seek an official diagnosis because they would not be safe, for employment or child custody reasons, or because they have been abused and threatened by therapists previously, or cannot be officially diagnosed because of misinformation and ignorance within the psychiatric community itself.

Self-diagnosis — sincere, well-researched self-diagnosis, and I have never met anyone self-diagnosed who had not slogged through weeks of research and self-doubt — does not ruin the reception of people who “really” have those diseases. It does not prevent anyone from attaining services they need. Ableism does that. Self-diagnosis is not part of ableism. Sometimes, self-diagnosis is necessary because of ableism, because the medical community — which we are, allegedly, supposed to rely on for “legitimate” diagnoses — is horrifically ableist.

Self-diagnosis does allow people to understand symptoms that may have been frightening, confusing, and distressing when unexplained. Self-diagnosis does allow people to better take care of themselves, plan for their abilities, and seek help they need (which, I repeat, does not prevent those with official diagnoses from doing the same).

I am physically abled, so I can’t speak for a physical disability like MS. Perhaps in that case it is different. But you seem here to tar all self-diagnoses with the same brush, and that is simply wrong.

As an autistic person with ADHD, when I first discovered those things it was a massive relief. Because my life before then had been a hell of confusion and self-hatred, because I couldn’t understand why I was so different from my allistic peers, why I couldn’t do things that seemed so easy for them, why they couldn’t do some things that came so easily for me. I did later seek (and received) professional diagnosis, but professional diagnosis is not available to everyone, and every diagnostic process begins with self-diagnosis.

Self-diagnosis is both valid and extremely important for many people. Insisting that only professional diagnoses have value and are “real” is both classist and ableist.

I don’t believe I’ve ever been called “classist.” 

I do understand very well the limits placed on people by money and access, and I also understand very well that many professionals are flawed. America is presently brawling over the right of all people to have access to some kind of medical care, even if it is flawed, and the kind of testing that will get people past inadequate care to better care.  All we can do is try.  People—medical people—are human.  We cannot promise perfect care to everyone, but it would be nice to get some kind of care to everyone, and accurate tests and a process that will send people to better care.  If that’s classist, then we are all classist for wanting something better, for ourselves and for the next generation.

At the present time not everyone can sort out medical journals and reach the right conclusions—I know I am not—and forgive me, a-fierce-macaw, but when it comes to the bell-shaped curve, I am ableist.  That you were able to work out your real diagnoses is a triumph of your own intellect and persistence.  Many people could not work it out.  Hate me for that if you will.

I wasn’t at all offended by what you wrote.  I don’t agree with all of it.  I’m afraid I might have offended you again, and disappointed you again.

I’ve never really understood all this hate directed towards people who self-diagnose.  In my life, I’ve seen very few (read: zero) people pretending to have disabilities to get attention/feel special, and numerous people who have disabilities accused, attacked, and harassed by people who think they’re faking it all because they don’t fit into some bullshit criteria created by able-bodied/neurotypical people of what a ‘real disability’ is. 

This whole ‘a diagnosis of a disability doesn’t count unless it was given by a medical professional’ is completely ridiculous.  There are so many reasons people wouldn’t want to/be able to got to a doctor.  Maybe these people who self-diagnose don’t have access to doctors.  Maybe they’ve heard the same stories I have of people who have self-diagnosed correctly only to be told by a whole bunch of people (including doctors) that they’re wrong and/or making it up before they can finally find the help they need.  Maybe they’ve been professionally diagnosed with other things previously and gone on to get absolutely no help or accommodations from anyone.

I am one of those self-diagnosed people who you people all claim are ruining the lives, reputations, and general credibility of the ‘real disabled people’ (maybe I should add that to my resume).  I am also one of those professionally diagnosed ‘real disabled people’.

The big problem I have here is that everyone seems to think that self-diagnosed people are just making shit up in order to feel special.  People always get angry at self-diagnosed people because “why would you want to have ‘x problem’.  I’m pretty sure that no one who self-diagnoses themselves with a serious illness/disability wants to be sick.  What they want is to find an explanation for their symptoms that can prove to themselves that it’s not all in their head, that they’re not trying hard enough to succeed, or that they should just suck it up and deal with it because we all get sick sometimes, all of which are things that people with disabilities/chronic illnesses (self-diagnosed or not) hear all the time.

So, long story short, self-diagnoses are not preventing disabled people from getting the treatment/accommodations they need, ableism is, and we need to stop confusing the two.

(Also, I just love how the OP calls people who self-diagnose “p**chos”.  Like, way to prove that you actually care about disabled people there. Seriously, if you have to critique self-diagnosed people, can you at least try not to use ableist terms while doing it?)

Self-diagnosis is often the first tool people have. A lot of times, doctors just put you in a category and refuse to listen to anything outside of that category, and that goes double for women/PoC/neuroatypical people. I have a friend who was misdiagnosed with juvenile arthritis but self-diagnosed as having EDS because the symptoms made much more sense. For years her doctors wouldn’t believe her, until she finally got a referral to a genetic counselor who confirmed what my friend had self-diagnosed as. But this wouldn’t’ve happened had she not had the time and money and health insurance to fight the doctors and get the diagnosis she had, which is a pretty rare combination of factors.

Hell, I had to fight like mad to get treatment for ovarian cysts, as the gyno the school insurance paid for wouldn’t believe me when I said how much pain I was in, and accused me of exaggerating it, DESPITE HAVING HAD CYSTS REMOVED BEFORE AND BEING TOLD THEY COULD COME BACK. I used my mom’s insurance to get a second opinion and lo and behold, hey, cysts! And now I’m getting treatment for it. Again, this wouldn’t’ve happened had I not had access to my mom’s insurance and the time and spoons to argue with the doctors. 

And that’s not even getting into the issue of self-diagnosing mental health issues – plenty of studies have shown that where white kids get an ADD or ADHD diagnosis, PoC kids get shunted into juvie and the prison to school pipeline. Lots of doctors still don’t believe that women can be autistic, ditto PoC (because the diagnosis criteria were formulated based on looking at upper/upper middle class white males). 

The blatant ignorance and ableism of these posts…..*flails*  I love Tamora Pierce as an author, but when she gets something so important SO WRONG…..*FLAILS*

Jillian McCabe Accused of Throwing Autistic Son Off Oregon Bridge – NBC News

lopunnykin:

mawilekin:

autisticfandomthings:

maswartz:

JESUS!

I think the fact that she and Kelli Stapleton were both “autism mom” bloggers is not a coincidence. I think there’s something very very scary and dangerous about the way most of that community talks about their children. And it’s past the point where it’s just harmful, it’s actually resulted in two separate parents trying to kill their children, and one succeeding.

This wasn’t even a murder-suicide. It was just a murder. She decided her son was too difficult, so she murdered him. I hope she spends the rest of her life in prison.

hey if you’re allistic you absolutely need to reblog this. this needs to get out there. just saying

hey how about allistics not fucking ignore this like every other murder of autistic children, dont ignore how the media is painting the mother as stressed and on edge as an excuse, dont ignore how she’s not being fully blamed and how this was an “understandable” response because her child was too much of a “burden.” dont fucking ignore this. the media is victim blaming a dead six year old do not ignore this

Jillian McCabe Accused of Throwing Autistic Son Off Oregon Bridge – NBC News

geekhyena:

abadeers:

if amanda bynes had depression, everyone would be hailing her for being ‘so inspirational’ and ‘lliving with such a tragic illness’

but because she’s schizophrenic, she’s mocked and humiliated by the media and by society for ‘outrageous’ and ‘hilarious’ behaviour she can’t control

this is why it’s dangerous to leave schizophrenia and psychosis out of your disability activism – because people still think it’s okay to say they support people with mental illnesses, but really only mean the mental illnesses they deem ‘normal’ enough to support.

THIS. SUPPORT -ALL- MENTAL ILLNESSES, NOT JUST THE CONVENIENT ONES. 

cannibalgender:

i see plenty of “protect autistic kids uwu” posts made to be feel-good useless bullshit for allistics, but do you know how many “protect autistic adults” posts there are? like fucking none. what, are we too inconvenient and un-cute for y’all?

protect autistic kids? yeah, and protect the adults they grow into.

protect autistic adults raised in medical facilities because their own families didn’t want to care for them

protect abused autistic adults whose accounts of their abuse are swept under the rug

protect autistic adults whose atypical mannerisms increase their risk of being shot by the police, especially if they’re black

protect autistic trans adults who are told they’re too “r*tarded” to transition, especially if they’re trans women

protect autistic MOGAI adults whose identities are constantly called into question because of their disability, especially if they’re trans women fighting the “male brain” stereotype, and who are invisible to the mainstream “gay rights” movement

protect autistic adults who are forced into dead-end jobs that pay pennies an hour, especially if they are stuck in potentially fatal poverty because of it

protect autistic adults whose children are taken from them because of their disability

protect us, because we are up to 10 times likelier than abled people to experience sexual abuse. protect us, because there are no cutesy programs to help us once we turn 18 and stop being young enough to care about. protect us, because no one else will!