butts-bouncing-on-the-beltway:

selchieproductions:

i mean, maybe this is my inner “survivor of child abuse” talking, but I am not going to tell abusive parents that they’re bad at bringing up their children without a bullet proof plan with regards to how I could protect my student from the emotional and physical backlash of that meeting.

Important thing to remember about intervening in abuse in general. Any actions taken by others to hold the abuser accountable WILL be taken out on the victim and not the person doing the confronting. Do not confront an abuser about their actions unless you know for absolute certain that you can protect their victim from the fallout.

yuleagin-nova:

lapis-ascending:

shitrichcollegekidssay:

The DAPL news is definitely something to be proud of but don’t think that the work is done. Jan Hasselman, who serves as an attorney for the Standing Rock Sioux Tribe, said that the Energy Transfer Partners can still sue this decision, and Trump can try to overturn it. This is a lengthy process that will takes years (with a better explanation why below) and we need to watch it as decisions are made. Remember the pipeline is still being built and it’s going somewhere. 

[Text reads: I do admin law for a living so let me explain how this corps decision plays out. The refusal to grant the easement stop the pipelines… for now. Trump could easily reverse it. But, the decision to order an EIS delays the pipeline for at least several years. If Trump orders the corps to stop the EIS process, several groups will sue, arguing that the reversal is arbitrary and capricious. And they will likely win, which means the EIS will be completed. That takes 2+ years. If the EIS ultimately recommends the same of similar route, several groups will sue, delaying it for 2+ more years. 1 year for suit in federal court, and 2 more year for appeal. Bottom line: decision to order an EIS that Trump probably cannot force a pipeline through same/similar route for 4+ years.]

We also have to remember that many water protectors are still going to be needing help with medical and legal funds so keep an eye out how to still help. 

#NoDAPL #StandWithStandingRock  

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This is a victory but the fight is not over. Celebrate, but stay vigilant.

cassandrashipsit:

samanticshift:

christinakelton:

luvtheheaven:

samanticshift:

samanticshift:

“i don’t judge people based on race, creed, color, or gender. i judge people based on spelling, grammar, punctuation, and sentence structure.”

i hate to burst your pretentious little bubble, but linguistic prejudice is inextricably tied to racism, sexism, classism, xenophobia, and ableism.

ETA: don’t send me angry messages about this…at all, preferably, but at least check the tag for this post before firing off an irate screed.

no one seems to be following the directive above, so here’s the version of this post i would like all you indignant folk to read.

no, i am not saying that people of color, women, poor people, disabled people, etc, “can’t learn proper english.” what i’m saying is that how we define “proper english” is itself rooted in bigotry. aave is not bad english, it’s a marginalized dialect which is just as useful, complex, and efficient as the english you’re taught in school. “like” as a filler word, valley girl speech, and uptalk don’t indicate vapidity, they’re common verbal patterns that serve a purpose. etc.

because the point of language is to communicate, and there are many ways to go about that. different communities have different needs; different people have different habits. so if you think of certain usages as fundamentally “wrong” or “bad,” if you think there’s a “pure” form of english to which everyone should aspire, then i challenge you to justify that view. i challenge you to explain why “like” makes people sound “stupid,” while “um” doesn’t raise the same alarms. explain the problem with the habitual be. don’t appeal to popular opinion, don’t insist that it just sounds wrong. give a detailed explanation.

point being that the concept of “proper english” is culturally constructed, and carries cultural biases with it. those usages you consider wrong? they aren’t. they’re just different, and common to certain marginalized groups.

not to mention that many people who speak marginalized dialects are adept at code-switching, i.e. flipping between non-standard dialects and “standard english,” which makes them more literate than most of the people complaining about this post.

not to mention that most of the people complaining about this post do not speak/write english nearly as “perfectly” as they’d like to believe and would therefore benefit by taking my side.

not to mention that the claim i’m making in the OP is flat-out not that interesting. this is sociolinguistics 101. this is the first chapter of your intro to linguistics textbook. the only reason it sounds so outlandish is that we’ve been inundated with the idea that how people speak and write is a reflection of their worth. and that’s a joyless, elitist idea you need to abandon if you care about social justice or, frankly, the beauty of language.

and yes, this issue matters. if we perceive people as lesser on the basis of language, we treat them as lesser. and yes, it can have real ramifications–in employment (tossing resumes with “black-sounding names”), in the legal system (prejudice against rachel jeantel’s language in the trayvon martin trial), in education (marginalizing students due to prejudice against dialectical differences, language-related disabilities, etc), and…well, a lot.

no, this doesn’t mean that there’s never a reason to follow the conventions of “standard english.” different genres, situations, etc, have different conventions and that’s fine. what it does mean, however, is that this standard english you claim to love so much has limited usefulness, and that, while it may be better in certain situations, it is not inherently better overall. it also means that non-standard dialects can communicate complex ideas just as effectively as the english you were taught in school. and it means that, while it’s fine to have personal preferences regarding language (i have plenty myself), 1) it’s worth interrogating the source of your preferences, and 2) it’s never okay to judge people on the basis of their language use.

so spare me your self-righteous tirades, thanks.

Oh my gosh YES, this post got so much better.

this is sociolinguistics 101. this is the first chapter of your intro to linguistics textbook. 

and

and yes, this issue matters. if we perceive people as lesser on the
basis of language, we treat them as lesser. and yes, it can have real
ramifications

I don’t agree. The school system has abandoned minorities for far too long. To let these young people go into their adult lives without the ability to read, spell, or properly punctuate is a shame. To pat them on the head and say, “write how you want because you’re a minority” is telling them that you don’t care about their education or their capacity to learn. Furthermore you’re okay with that because they’re minorities? Have you no shame?

with all due respect, this is a terrible comment. truly terrible.

first of all, i went to great detail about how other dialects and usages, while perhaps not appropriate in every context, are valid, useful, and complex, so blathering on about how students just don’t know how to read, write, or spell completely misses the point. saying that certain usages are just wrong is a value judgment made overwhelmingly about language common to marginalized people (who are not necessarily minorities, but anyway). this is not a new or bold assertion. this is fundamental to the field of sociolinguistics, and i’ve never seen anyone present a compelling case in favor of linguistic prejudice. no one’s patting anyone on the head–we’re saying that grammar cops suffer from a basic misunderstanding of how language works. as i wrote in the very long post you don’t appear to have read, the point of language is communication, so if people are communicating effectively, language is functioning exactly as it’s meant to.

but what really gets me about this abysmal response is your assumption that linguistic descriptivism = not teaching grammar, spelling, or reading at all. that’s not even remotely the case–in fact, here’s a post i wrote about my success in bringing a descriptivist approach to the classroom. i’ve done this same kind of thing in one-on-one tutoring and have found it far more effective than any “this is wrong, this is right, grammar is set in stone” approach. teaching descriptivism leads to better writing, a deeper understanding of grammar, and fewer assholes.

in conclusion, please take your melodramatic “have you no shame?” bullshit as far away from me as possible.

I just look at this and somehow OF COURSE the asshole racist commenter is not only in the DA fandom but a fucking Solas stan.

kinghardy:

iloveyoualeclightwood:

refinery29:

White supremacists are holding horrifying pro-Trump rallies in Washington, DC. You need to know this is happening right. Now.

The National Policy Institute sponsored the 11-hour series of lectures and roundtables, headlined by its head Richard B. Spencer and former reality star and current Hitler enthusiast Tila Tequila.

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“america was, until this past generation, a white country, designed for ourselves and our posterity. it is our creation. it is our inheritance and it belongs to us” fucking die u disgusting nazi

Its honestly fucking appalling how lightly everyone is taking this. How NO one is even taking steps to denounce this and to actually put an end to this fucking shit. How so many journalists are using “alt right” instead of calling them out for what they are, fucking nazis. There was a time i wouldve believe people would be horrified but people today are so fucking PASSIVE about this?????? WHERES THE FUCKING ANGER? HAS THE HOLOCAUST AND ITS HORRORS TAUGHT US NOTHING???? JFC.

Like FUCK. IF YOURE IN ANY WAY NEUTRAL ON THIS YOURE JUST SIDING WITH THESE FUCKING NAZI ASSHOLES. SPEAK OUT. FUCKING EXPOSE PEOPLE TO THIS SHIT. YEAH ITS SICKENING BUT MAKE IT KNOWN REALIZE THIS SHIT IS FUCKING HAPPENING AGAIN AND UNLESS WE PROTEST AND FIGHT BACK WERE GOING TO ACCEPT WHATEVER SHIT COMES OUR WAY AND WE SHOULDNT. HOLY FUCKING SHIT FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, MORE PEOPLE NEED TO FUCKING GET ANGRY ABOUT THIS.

animatorzee:

Also, here’s a very important thing: a lot of abusive people will not show their abusive side at all in front of non-victims. Perhaps your friend claims her mother is emotionally abusive, but when you meet her mother, the woman is very sweet and generous and makes for great conversation and even treats you guys to ice cream or something.

Abusive people are alarmingly good at coming across as perfectly good people when they’re not alone with their victims,. They can flip like a switch between being scary and being amiable. Some might even go the extra mile to turn people against you, making it seem like you’re just being selfish and they’re not at fault. The two-faced act may not always be intentional, but that doesn’t make it any less damaging. In fact, it can make things worse because people may not believe you and you may not get the support you need.

So, if someone tells you that their parent/significant other/etc is emotionally abusive, and your first thought is “But they were so nice when I met them!”, this is probably what’s happening. Please don’t dismiss them just because you may have had a positive experience with someone that makes their life hell when you’re not looking. Listen to them.

France is screwed.

cassandrashipsit:

talkgentlytome:

For my English-Speaking followers: so basically, the FN has won the first part of our regional elections. Broadly : Marine LePen is our French equivalent of Donald Trump. Her party is implicitly xenophobic, overtly anti-gay marriage and pro-life, and most of its members are sexist, racist and islamophobic idiots. So we are basically about to be a Fascist country in theory, how beautiful is that? 

As a good example of the mentality of this party, its former president, Marine LePen’s father Jean-Marie, was accused to have said that ‘the Jewish genocide’ was only a ‘minor detail’ of WW II and on another occasion, that it hadn’t even taken place at all. He is also said to have claimed that his ‘daughter was born in the good race’. Another horrible example: a little girl whose family is pro-FN was interviewed in the street, and when journalists asked her what she knew about the FN, she replied, most certainly following what she’d heard at home: that ‘they aimed at exporting people who aren’t white’. So her parents are overtly racist at home and probably wouldn’t have said that on TV, but a little can never understand such thing so she wasn’t afraid to say it out loud, thus clearly expressing what the party’s members are trying to hide between a hardcore patriotic facade. There are a lot of other examples but I will stop there.

The Attack of Paris have something to do with this, it’s obvious. People are afraid, they think it’s going to solve terrorism if innocent illegal immigrants and Syrian refugees are sent back to their countries of origin. People CANNOT understand that this is precisely what terrorists from ISIS want: to divide us, to create fear and racism within us all.

 This triumph of a fascist party in France is ISIS’s triumph as well. We screwed up hard, and I’m concerned for the future. The Presidential elections take place in 2017, and if we keep going that way, this country is going downhill…

Edit : If you are a French citizen, please go and vote next Sunday. There was a huge level of abstention for the first round and this passivity partly led to that nightmare./ Si vous êtes un citoyen français, je vous supplie d’aller voter dimanche prochain pour le second tour. Il y avait un niveau démesuré d’abstention pour ce premier tour et c’est en parti pour cela qu’on s’est retrouvé dans le caca.

This is a global problem, not just an America thing. I’ve been saying for a while that the current political situation reminds me of the period between WWI and WWII and that feeling is only growing strong.

Shit’s getting real kids, it’s time to buckle up.