therosielord:

Okay I’ve seen this post going around about how it’s “ableist” to leave someone who abuses you instead of trying to understand them if their abuse is due to a mental illness (in this particular post the example illness was borderline personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder).

As a survivor of abuse from someone with both of the above disorders, I am so mega pissed. I am here to make something very clear. Repeat after me:

Abuse is not excused just because the abuser has a mental illness.
Leaving someone who actually harms you because of their disorder is NOT the same as neglecting someone who needs you with a disorder that doesn’t cause abusive behavior (like neglecting your child because they have autism.)
You don’t actually owe anything to anyone – if someone who you want to leave has a mental disorder, you are not morally obliged to stay with this person just because they have a mental disorder and they “need” you – ESPECIALLY IF THEY ABUSE YOU.

IF SOMEONE ABUSES YOU AND THIS BEHAVIOR SOMEHOW RESULTS FROM THEIR MENTAL DISORDER, YOU DO NOT HAVE TO EXCUSE THEM. WE DONT EXCUSE MURDERS BECAUSE THE PERSON WHO COMMITTED THEM HAS A DISORDER. THE SAME GOES FOR ABUSE.

I don’t normally post stuff like this because I know I’ll make a lot of people angry probably but this is SO important to me. People spent years telling me that it wasn’t my abuser’s fault that he abused me because he was mentally ill. Don’t EVER let anyone tell you that.

Am I saying that people who have potentially harmful disorders like bdp are innately awful and we should be mean to them? OF COURSE NOT! I’m just saying that if they hurt people, we don’t get to guilt trip their victims into feeling bad for wanting to escape an abusive situation because it “isn’t the abuser’s fault.” It’s sick and manipulative and needs to end NOW.

america-wakiewakie:

Reclaiming King’s Legacy: A Jobs & Economy March for the People | Anti-Police Terror Project

“This weekend is part of a national call that will tell the world that King’s vision and mission were larger than what we have been allowed to remember. Through 96 hours of direct action and a Jobs & Economy March, we are reclaiming Dr. King’s radical and militant legacy of direct action.” 

Anti-Police Terror Project

Join us (click here) for a MLK day march that reclaims the spirit of King from whitewashed history and celebrates his legacy of radical resistance! Let’s debunk the mainstream media narrative that has painted MLK as a sanitized pacifist and uses him to denounce militant forms of resistance.

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geekhyena:

congenitalprogramming:

purplekecleon:

koryos:

If you love Scottish fold cats, I’m going to tell you something you don’t want to hear. Please, please read on anyway. If you are considering adopting a Scottish fold, PLEASE continue reading. This information needs to be more widely known.

In 2008, the Journal of Small Animal practice released a short report on disorders associated with breeds of cats. In this report, the authors mentioned the Scottish fold:

People who own them may be “charmed” by their round faces and open expression (and they may not realise that the reason the cats do not move around too much is because they are variably crippled with arthritis).1

The gene that causes the cute fold in the Scottish fold’s ear also leads to the development of a degenerative disorder called osteochondrodysplasia. ALL Scottish folds have this disorder, whether they show symptoms or not- the fold in their ears is caused by a cartilage deformity that also affects their joints.

Osteochondrodysplasia leads to crippling osteoarthritis, which affects Scottish folds at much younger ages than other breeds of cats. In cats heterozygous for the gene, the disease’s progression can be seen in cats as young as six months. In homozygous cats, it can be seen as early as seven weeks old.

Affected cats may be grossly deformed, with short wide limbs and a short, inflexible tail. They show lameness, swollen wrist (carpal) and ankle (tarsal) joints, have an abnormal gait, and are reluctant to move and jump. Severely affected individuals become crippled and unable to walk.

Many affected cats are euthanased earlier in life due to the profound effects of this disease.2

The breed is often described as “placid” and “calm.” This is due to the fact that they are constantly in pain due to this disorder. Even in mild, ‘asymptomatic’ cases which can occur in heterozygous cats, they may still be experiencing pain due to cats’ tendency to hide their suffering.

Many breeders of Scottish folds claim that not all heterozygous cats have the disorder, because the studies that examined the cats (which were all, heterozygous or not, shown to have it) had small sample sizes.

In 2003, Lorraine Shelton, a specialist in genetic diseases, offered to pay for 300 x-rays of healthy adult Scottish folds to prove that the disorder was not present in some heterozygous cats.

…She has asked a list of 300 Scottish Fold breeders from around the world to go to their vet to get X-rays done. She had offered to pay for these X-rays but not a single breeder had taken up that offer. You could not know whether this problem existed unless an X-ray was taken. If somebody would send her an X-ray of a healthy hind leg of a folded eared cat, she would be grateful as she wanted to see the very first one.3

To date, no one has taken her up on the offer. The breeders’ unwillingness to have their cats examined speaks volumes. The authors of all studies on these cats agree: it ethically wrong to continue breeding these cats.

It disturbs me that any breeder would knowingly continue to create animals that will be in pain throughout their lives. As a cat lover myself, I am begging you, please do not buy Scottish folds. Do not support these unethical breeding practices, or the concept that it is acceptable to intentionally breed unhealthy animals for the sake of how they look.

Citations

Breed-related disorders of cats (discusses issues with other breeds as well)

Genetic welfare problems of companion animals: osteochondrodysplasia (a thorough description of the disease and its prevalence)

FIFe meeting notes (leading to a decision not to recognize Scottish folds as an offical breed due to the disorder)

There was also a follow-up email about Shelton’s offer which can be read here.

Studies on osteochondrodysplasia in Scottish Folds

Osteochondrodysplasia in Scottish Fold cats

Incomplete dominant osteochondrodysplasia in heterozygous Scottish Fold cats (this is the source of the above x-ray pictures)

Before you buy ANY animal, please do your research. If a breed suffers from high incidences of genetic disorders, don’t use your money to support the creation of more animal suffering.

This is important enough to be posted to my main blog. I know I reblogged this months and months ago, but not enough people know about this.

There is absolutely no way to “cure” the Scottish folds of this. The gene that causes the ear to look so cute and floppy is because of the cartilage not forming properly, which is what causes the health problems — even in cats that are bred Fold x Non Fold.

What’s fucking worse is that they’re cross breeding Scottish folds with other cats. As soon as I saw them crossed with Sphynxes (anyone who follows me is probably aware of the three Sphynxes we have and how much I love them), my heart sank. This is called a “Skinderlop”

Breeding is supposed to be about breeding healthy cats/animals free of defects, and about examining mutations to see what the health risks are, if there are any. It is not supposed to be about creating more cats who are doomed to horrible health problems from birth. That is so cruel it’s unbelievable – and people still defend this breed’s continued existence…

If you know anyone who is looking into getting a kitten from a breeder, PLEASE let them know about the health problems associated with Scottish folds and cross breeds so that they don’t continue to support this sort of thing. It is needlessly cruel.

SIGNAL BOOST

ONE THING PEOPLE NEED TO UNDERSTAND

IS THAT THE DRAMATIC DEFORMITIES IN DOMESTIC ANIMALS THAT WE DEEM ‘CUTE’

OFTEN COME AT A COST TO THE ANIMALS

this goes for scottish folds, munchkin cats, pugs, dachsunds, teacup pets and so forth.

THIS. SO. MUCH. THIS. Some breeds respond well to being miniaturized….to a point (poodles, aussie shepherds, pinschers, schnauzers, etc. But once you get under 10lb adult weight, BAD THINGS HAPPEN.) PLEASE BREED RESPONSIBLY. PLEASE SIGNAL BOOST THIS. (And don’t get me -started- on Beagles or Springer Spaniels)

a-singer-of-songs:

wordsonbirds:

thepacificparrotlet:

For anyone who might have wanted a comparison between a comfortably restrained bird and the distressed bird.

There’s more that wouldn’t fit on the image: scruffy feathers between the legs indicate the feathers are being held too tight, the facial muscles are held tight, and the entire body when raised by the tongs is extremely straight, when approached with the tongs the bird leans back as a sign of fear.  The bird was also looking around rapidly meanwhile the bird in my hand lays calmly and only moves her head with slow movements out of curiosity.

Remember: you are dealing with an entirely different class of animal with their own body language. We’re not immediately familiar with avian body language, and that’s okay! But if we are going to keep them, we need to learn.

THANK YOU.  I got so pissed off at that video that I couldn’t manage a coherent reaction, but the second I saw it I thought, “That bird is fucking terrified, knock it off.”

If you get ANY animal, it is YOUR JOB to learn to understand their body language.  You don’t get to play the cutesy little, “Oh, I didn’t know!” card and laugh it off as a simple mistake.  Learn the basics: scared, excited, unsure, comfortable, uncomfortable, and then go from there.

an explanation for why trans men on your dash may have been upset about the “4 dads and no mom” post:

bogleech:

doctor-segmentium:

The post is either:

A) untrue, in which case it is exploiting trans men for humor which is shitty considering the subject matter is EXTREMELY triggering for a large portion of trans men, if not the majority, or

B) true, in which case the poor kid involved was probably fucking traumatized by the…

Yeah I only half-read it before I reblogged for the “aw someone has four dads?!” thing but then immediately thought something was skeevy, reread and deleted it. A and B are both correct.

an explanation for why trans men on your dash may have been upset about the “4 dads and no mom” post:

thepoliticalfreakshow:

African-American Girls & Women Killed By Police: Speak Their Names. See Their Faces. Know Their Stories.

There is this false myth going around that Black women are not victims of police violence. I believe the myth exists because quite frankly the media, social justice organizations and we the public tend not to focus on it. It is a self-fulfilling prophecy. I hope this post will make all of us change our minds. Here are the stories of some of the Black women and girls killed by law enforcement:

Adaisha Miller, Detroit Woman, Hugged Cop From Behind

LAPD cop charged with assault in death of Alesia Thomas

7-year- old Aiyana Stanley-Jones – Detroit Free Press

17 Year Old Darnesha Harris Dead after Run-In with Breaux

Mackala Ross and Delores Epps

Eleanor Bumpurs

Erica Collins family files lawsuit against Cincy Police

Pleasant Grove crash claims life of second person | AL.com (Heather Parker)

Family grieves after loved one killed in crash with APD (Jacqueline Culp)

Family of victim question police use of deadly force – KWCH (Karen Day)

Kendra James remembered at Portland rally | KOIN.com

Pedestrian Killed on I-95 in Florida (Laporsha Watson)

After Cleveland shooting, cities restrict police chases(Malissa Williams)

Miriam Carey, Capitol Suspect, Suffered Post-Partum Depression

Elderly Woman Shot & Killed By Hearne Police Officer (Pearlie Golden)

Rekia Boyd Settlement: Family Of Unarmed Chicago Woman

Former Pa. trooper pleads guilty in fatal accident (Robin T. Williams)

Shantel Davis Killed By NYPD Cop In Car Chase | News One

Friends: Woman killed by police was nonviolent | Las Vegas (Sharmel Edwards)

Suspected Walmart Shoplifter Shot To Death In Front Of Kids (Shelly Frey)

The NYPD’s Poor Judgment With the Mentally Ill | Village Voice (Shereese Francis)

Harrisburg woman identified as victim in police SUV crash (Shulena S. Weldon)

$2.5M settlement in shooting of Lima woman by police officer (Tarika Wilson)

No Charges in Killing of Tyisha Miller – Los Angeles Times

Texas Police Admit Officer Shot & Killed Unarmed Woman (Yvette Smith)

When people with privilege hear that they have privilege, what they hear is not, ‘Our society is structured so that your life is more valued than others.’ They hear, ‘Everything, no matter what, will be handed to you. You have done nothing to achieve what you have.’ That’s not strictly true, and hardly anyone who points out another’s privilege is making that accusation. There are privileged people who work very hard. The privilege they experience is the absence of barriers that exist for other people.

…If a discussion about privilege serves any purpose, it is so that the privileged recognize their own and are then compelled to work to dismantle the structures that have bestowed privilege upon them. In order to do so, one would have to recognize the call to ‘check your privilege’ as less of a personal attack, because it is not. It’s a wake-up call to action.

Please be educated about North Korea

kyaasnow:

So I’ve been particularly disgusted by all of the jokes being made recently about North Korea – specifically the incredibly uncomfortable moments during the Golden Globes tonight.  I thought I’d do what little I can to help people understand what is REALLY happening in North Korea.  I’m not sure that many people will see this post but I’ll post it anyway.

North Korea is NOT a joke.  It is a real place where people are starving and being tortured and dying every single day.  The people are brainwashed.  Even if they manage to escape to China they are still in danger because they can be sent back to North Korea where they may be killed or sent to a labor camp (aka a concentration camp).

Here are some links to videos, documentaries, and some reading material on North Korea.  Please spread this as much as you can, because I’d love for people to understand what is really happening in North Korea so that everyone can see how these jokes are not funny and be more knowledgable when discussing the country.

Videos

Reading

There’s so much more information that I didn’t link here, but maybe this can get some people started.

Please, before dismissing a socialist regime as just a joke or something that’s not real or not serious, educate yourself about it!

Thanks and I hope this is helpful!

floraldead:

A little comic I made to help my friends and family understand agender!

Some helpful links to let you know more about agender and other gender identities are below.

http://nonbinary.org/wiki/Agender

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genderqueer

http://hellyeahagender.tumblr.com/faq

http://gender.wikia.com/wiki/Agender

https://www.genderspectrum.org

http://www.hrc.org/youth-report/supporting-and-caring-for-our-gender-expansive-youth#.VLPhk1qxA6p

Happy learning!